marry a man who would care for others...

i think that ultimately, at the end of the day, a man who is willing to serve others other than himself is worth marrying... not only would he care for you really well, his act of caring for others would spur you in encouragement to serve with a willing heart as well...

i went to the old folks' home today to help out a little... push the old folks into the church for service and chatted with them whilst and after we fed some of them...

although the fact of their abandonment is hard to swallow, it's harder to think that we don't appreciate what God has given to us, and we don't use whatever we have got to serve others... our time and efforts... most times thinking that we haven't got the time due to having so much church service to cover, and at others thinking that we don't have the aptitude to serve others in this way...

i never felt this way before... waking up so early in the morning to travel to boon lay to serve... and wasn't disappointed when i got there... i was really glad i came... there are people in this world who need help... many of them lonely and needing a hand, or ears to hear them out... someone to share their interests and someone to make what we call 'unnecessary talk'...

and it seems like the age gap between me and my older cousins is closing in... just met up with some of them while i was there at my close-cousin-cum-godbrother's 21st bday... and i realise that i can actually play with kids! i am not irritable with kids suddenly...

so suddenly... so many things have changed...

and soon, more to come... soon...